I lived with natural up to the age of 16. Like so many other young girls, I could hardly wait to press my hair. My mother did it right there in the kitchen. Oh those darn hot combs and the burns. But we pay a price for "beauty" right? As soon as I started working at age 18, I headed to the hair salon and had my hair chemically straightened. After all, all my life, I was led to believe that natural hair was difficult to care for and style.
In the years after that first straightening adventure, I reverted to my natural hair several times and always with a rush of confidence and freedom.
But with no information, guidance or examples, I eventually went back to the hair salon to "get my hair done".
I can't remember how long I left my hair in its natural state the last time - maybe about 7 years. I relaxed it last year September 2011. I took this step with some discomfort because I didn't believe it was the best decision. But I did it all the same. Sometimes, we make bad decisions, right?
Six months ago (April 2012) the breakage was the worst ever. I knew I had to do something and chemicals was not the answer. It was the problem. Natural hair was the way to go. I turned into a research junkie and what an education.
Facebook, websites and You Tube - natural hair aficionados reigned - from wannabe's, to newbies, to short-term and long-term transitioners, to big choppers, to women who have been natural all their lives. I knew I was not alone but I had no idea that I was venturing into one of the most helpful and inspiring communities. They were sharing their stories, asking questions, providing answers, advising, encouraging, showing how they "do" their beautiful, natural hair. It was and is wonderful (such an understatement).
Many of the products I see online are not available here in Trinidad and Tobago but I was fortunate to find some that have been treating my hair very well. It has never been so healthy. I'm just so thrilled to be sporting my natural tresses at this time in my life. The confidence, the freedom. And yes - the pride in the mixtures on my head the satisfaction of knowing that I can care for and style my natural hair with great products.